let's set some boundaries... "your problems are not my professional concern" so, please limit your emotional feelings, before your issues become my personal problems, and then i will waive the courtesy and give you a dose of reality ..!. we're coworkers, they don't pay me enough to be your friend, why do co-workers believe going to work is like attending college? or high school for the slow ones... we ain't childhood friends, just humans competing in a salary slavery scheme,