cheaters confessions anonymous...

what's your definition of cheating?

i've had some thoughts about cheating over the years...

is it "ok" depending on the "circumstances"?

"grown folk don't cheat, they have rendezvous or "participate" in sexual exercises for health purposes".

everybody has their own pov of what cheating is,

there are levels to this shit,

ever heard of an "open relationship"?

because we fucking don't make us a couple, don't assume, confirm,

we just in a situationship, no strings attached just enjoying our natural energy of sexual attractions [sneaky link vibes classified],

think out the box, it's a big dysfunctional world out there tempting you to sin...

who set the rules to the game of infidelity?

sounds man made to me,

i don't want to control "one's" soul with emotional slavery tactics,

cheating seems like a loophole peasants weren't prevee to in ancient times,

marriage is an idea elites made into a bizness,

and a relationship is the commitment to that arrangement, locked in forever, fueled on love, lol,

before you commit to anyone [or thing], overstand the emotional contract your about to sign off on,

read the fine print of possible red flag verbiage,

you just gotta follow your intuition and practice emotional yoga [woosah, lol].

the devils not a lie, he's your daddy so control your ego...

i was out wit some yn's and their stable the other day [their words],

when they started discussing crashing out and how, if they found out their significant other was unfaithful

[that's a subjectable topic they have no experience discussing yet],

but i stays in my lane minding my bizness, yet still observant in the cut.

as the resident "unk" all eyes gravitate my way, waiting for my seasoned input or opinion,

i don't kiss and tell [wink wink, smirk]

however, this is my opinion which both sides can agree, benefit, or disagree on...

i'm loyal to my people's, male or female, cat or dog,

so example,

if we take a guy's trip and i peep one of my "faithful" friends getting his jollies off,

i'm cool with that, no harm no foul, just don't violate ya vows,

i've heard the war stories of marriage, live life my guy, 2 nut salute [pause of course],

however,

if my guy is a civilian playing the family guy role,

i don't condone investing in a fucking side bitch or thot,

i don't show side bitches no love, they fucking up a happy home,

now that's cheating to me!

one & done, wash your hands of that shit,

no following on social media,

no falling for thirst traps,

we don't invest time in thots over here, because your wife's not, and i respect that,

i know stress needs to be released from time to time mentally [& sexually],

so i'll take them to the "skin museum" to mingle amongst the exhibits safely :) !

on the flip side,

if i'm out with my shorty rocks, day party hopping,

they sippin & dippin, preying on a yung buck to twerk on,

imma be they wing man,

they drink watcher, purse holder,

on demand personal photographer, they can chit chat and flirt all they want,

yet they can't break da "no no" code,

i'm still big bro,

always use an alias and never exchange lips or numbers, no social either,

that rollercoaster gonna be too emotional,

that's just a foot in the door,

you better slam that shit out ya fuckin mind cause i see infidelity in his eyes,

if they ask why, my silence never tells a lie,

but you can tell by my vibes, side dudes get da boot too,

no beef but you ain't on the menu dog!

don't make the 1st scenarios a habit,

but the 2nd ones don't get my righteous approval,

there's boundaries i don't violate,

if you locked in with an individual, all the single frolicking gotta decease, rest in peace,

there are expensive consequences to being unfaithful, financially, mentally, & spiritually!

again, on the other hand,

if the relationship blossomed out of cheating, why wouldn't cheating be an option or outcome in that relationship's future?

don't be naïvely optimistic that you can reform a cheater, tred with caution playa,

filters make the devil appear angelic.

self-accountability is key...

why cheat and hide?

not proud of your actions?

don't be a cowardist,

walk with the "c" on your chest and hickeys on your neck,

or just walk away, enjoy the fruits of being single and stress-free,

play the field like an mvp!

cheating is more than a red flag,

it's a weakness, an addiction,

a lack of self-control, wolves in sheep's clothes, baiting then switching,

there are many reasons to why people cheat and why their intentions are deliberate,

and or sinister!

i don't judge, i observe then i judge...

the concept of relationships has evolved into a game of emotions over time,

many can't handle, yet anybody can play, sounds like a sensual religion,

all you gotta do is be vulnerable, invest time & discipline, and the magic happens,

but that takes work.

as i've aged i understand why younger me didn't want it for future me,

it's not designed for everybody, no user's manual to human relationships, just a bunch of opinions and feelings.

i'm neither pro nor anti cheating,

that's a personal decision of a belief system,

i love my sexual freedom and emotional sanity,

i'm an opportunist, following the soloman single for life style formula,

i wouldn't cheat if i'm committed, but i'm not seeking commitment,

just enjoyment,

i will entertain a "cheater" tho, seeking sexual entertainment for a temporary entanglement.

what's your take on "cheating" in this modern digital society?

have we come too far for "traditional" relationship structures to succeed as they once did?