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don't allow ur pride to dictate ur actions ..!.

wax da'villin
May 23, 2025
5 min read

that's why we don't share the same common sense,

you don't think like us!



bullying in 2025?

really?

wow!

pathetic honestly...


there are so many elephants [no disrespect to actual elephants, love you guys] in the room, however we seem to collectively ignore it [society in a whole],

yet have public outcries when we become victims to it ..!.


i'm speaking to the world here [the 195 or so representing],

so many time zones are affected by this common acceptance,

but i'm using my zity experience as a conduit to paint a picture...


when i was younger i didn't get bullied,

but i've witnessed many violations of bullying during my childhood, teenage years, young adult into mature adulthood,

even witnessed it in the senior citizen society [65+ club],

it was verbal and physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bullying too,

"bullyist" believes in "equal rights", and it associates with "cowardist",

a lot of red flags when you're in one's presence...


grade k - 12 felt like day prison for some children,

having to survive the personality wars @ education institutions, a melting pot of inconsistencies & hypocrisy,

where do you think kids learn their behaviors from?

and the winner is...

parents sit ya asses down, lol,

influencers [peer pressures] have more of an "impact" on what your child learns, and they acquire most of their patterns from those idols,

during that stage of their life they're trying to find an identity, a space in this matrix to claim as their own,

parents aren't the trendsetters, just the enforcers, parents just don't understand,

who gets more likes, the goody goodies, or the thirst trap baddies?

dad bods or adonis gods?


college is a choice yet a forced ideology,

so many gamble their time @ educational institutions rather than investing in the vocational route, just to be in debt to attend a "higher learning experience" to be successful in adulthood,

oh the deception,

when you finally reach "adulthood" [25 - retirement age] reality shifts, shits gets real, you have now entered the "work force" level, the "self-responsibility" stage of your life,

time to find a sponsor to invest forty years of your life to,

not what you imagined it to be huh, life is about to bully you into submission, smh!


it seems like bullying is an accepted practice throughout our academic journey,

like a birthright to "humanity", a MANmade sabotaged system,

but when you become an adult your still being bullied, {eg. work culture, road rage, self-centered aggressions, discrimination, mental health issues etc.]

when the fuck does it stop?

when will karma correct their sins?

is it hate, or obsession @ this point?

with our current mental health forecast, you would assume people would think twice before bullying a stranger or even a friend, family member or acquaintances,

don't "gaslight" if you're not prepared to get burned, you never know what someone is going thru, or what their capable of doing...

"fuck around & find out" is an actual thing,


"karenism & cowardism" is a self-absorbed type of bullying that should be checked,

just a couple of bullying subcultures i plucked out the hat,

seems like a mental health red flag, childhood trauma usually, [seek therapy]

i believe victims should return the favor, send a message, expose & embarrass them for believing bullying in the real world don't have consequences ..!.


are there actually laws protecting bullies?

they do tend to choose criminal careers however,

i mean the law does protect the rights of criminals, so the idea might not be an oxymoronic thought...

we all got some type of device that links us to social media news networks and so forth,

bullies are camera shy "supposedly",

and the ones that aren't usual regret it because going viral is the worse cancer of cancel culture,

become a meme should be triggering, violators bizness put on digital front street,

digital sleuths picking @ them like a bunch of vultures,

and the comments smfh lol, bully central,

not a journey i would like to take...


how do we as a community or society combat bullying?

do we really care about bullying until it affects us directly?

anti bullying campaigns seem not to work, i'm wonder where all those "donations" go...

hoping & preying?

don't be naive, history don't lie, bullying has infected many cultures throughout time,

and in our current civilizations, with the help of technology,

it's in our schools,

@ our workplace,

in bizness, workforce culture,

in the home, within family structures etc. etc.

it's like we see it everywhere now,

on tv shows,

in religions,

in politics,

the entertainment industry,

in sports, the fans,

on social media, the followers,

in memes,

in pop culture, the influencers,

in music,

on campus of educational institutions,

just look around, it's not hard to identify a bully, or believers of bullyism...

to many "titles" distracting the meaning or message, just call a spade a spade impo,


good people are bullies,

bad people are bullies,

even animals are bullies,

seems like it's a mammal defectiveness the creator overlooked, and we exploited,

however,

history tells us bullies eventually end up "fucking around & finding out" crossing paths with the right "one's" @ the wrong time lol...


"do unto others"
"do unto others"

if you're minding your bizness, staying in your lane,

following the laws of the land manifesting tranquility, applaud yourself, its not easy to manage that rage, but you do,

but if some bully juice fuel "karen" or "coward dan" disturbs your peace,

that's when you know you have to address them and then ignore them,

if that doesn't work "plan b" is tear they asses into pieces, [pause]

disturb my peace & i'll give you a two piece,

my bad, that's just my intrusive demons suggesting i choose mischief, however i chose peace, for now...

i know it's hard to check your energy when it comes to a bully, however,

are they worth your time & energy tho?

ignore their retarded asses, and stay blessed, you can't control their energy so don't try to match it,

however, if they put hands on you, well now the balls in your court,

what are you going to do?

fight or flight or a mix of both?

don't fall for the emotional jabs and get into your feelings,

that's how bullies win,

their weak minded and want you to come down to their level, because deep down, they admire & want your attention,

if their giving you that much attention, what else can that mean?


red flag alert,

loser abuser, stranger danger!!!

it's time to put the paws on them, [hope you know how to fight tho]

time to bruce lee a pussy ass coward, bullies don't expect push back,

so clap back, put boots into ass,

do unto others and give them the same energy with action [within legal parameters],

or give them the "spotlight" their begging for and see how they like to be bullied by the "anti-bully campaign" members,

the media[s] love the drama, oh the ratings war, sweeps week,

with so many digital platforms, millions can witness karma in 3d 4k,

it would heal so much trauma for those that seek closure,

i don't condone violence but will entertain it if deserving,


in 2025 you don't have to physically assault a hater, or catch a charge,

you have options now, savvy tech, just make them viral and let the digital agents do what they do best and wait for the exposure expose!


this is just my simple opinion, pov,

sometimes i'm confused on how dysfunctional the inhabitants on earth have become,

or maybe this is karma for our silence, prayers and lack of factual actions why we've accepted bullying with no discrimination to punk us wit fear,


should we blame ourselves for the influence bullying has on our fractured society?

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