[nda vs nsa : who wants to play?]

[not into relationships?

just into various situationships,

wit nsa benefits?

we don't need nda's over here,

we appreciate the females out there

giving us permission,

just words of wisdom from an old school playa...]

in this modern day & age it's easy to connect,

yet hard to find a compatible companion amongst the bots and filtered fuckery online, "games of fuckery, dating in the digital era",

with all the technology in world today, individuals can interact wit thousands of people without actually meeting them in person

[aka video chat, chatrooms, social media platforms, snail mail etc...],

dating seems to be a mission impossible for the zillions of singles and those seeking love to fill their empty soul, or sexual void,

hope you like catfish and ghost stories, seems like the web is crawling with those two pathic twins, scamming emotional souls...

so many titles these days to describe pretty much any style of "relationships",

nothing is simple in this matrix, acronyms for everything,

now, everybody is an expert on "dating and relationship goals",

yet have a failing relationship themselves, they receipts was exposed,

who was their examples growing up?

soaps [the stories] & reality tv?

house of cards, or dynasty?

real housewives or whatever other toxic distraction on streaming?

they just getting your attention for ratings, lol,

the concept of dating wasn't created to cater to "all" that seek "emotional or sexual enlightenment or companionship",

it was created for education & entertainment, then MANipulated by corporations,

but "if" it was created to cater to all,

then there should be classes from k - 12 educating them kids about "dating",

what to expect, pros, cons, dangers, privilege, & pleasures,

i mean, don't other "ism" indoctrinate bullshit early?

we've seen the studies & reports, the checks & balances,

why not something that relates in real life, wit no discrimination.

this generation ain't stupid,

just misguided thru their most vulnerable times in life,

"parents" can't be trusted unfortunately, they juggle so much,

why do parents forget how it felt during those times [k - 12],

and then expect they kids to not have to go thru life's challenges?

they must experience growing pains, and develop other useful survival instincts,

it's starting to seem like the education system is the biggest joke to ever cripple a civilization or society, lol,

truth is...

social media is the new k - 12 educational system, and they can't control it, yet, how ironic...

there i go again being random off the point,

let's get back...

standards vary depending on a number of indicators [list] when it comes to "dating",

like...

appearance, behavior,

culture, confidences, mannerisms,

education, accomplishments,

beliefs, goals, morals,

emotional intelligence, financials status etc. etc...

it's more than just "lust" for many, their desire is "love", the long-term emotional investment,

others just want short term pleasure & satisfaction, no strings attached,

random, relatable, risqué....

should we be honest wit our intentions, when frolicking within the dating scene?

honesty is the best policy, yet not for every situation,

there are levels to this dating & relationship shit,

"some" just wanna have fun being single for life, it's a choice, there's no rules to this, we just complicate it,

then you got "those" that are committed to the plan, building their team, investing in the family experience, generational wealth,

then you got the "gray area residents" that are still trying to figure it out, or just not a worthy investment to suitors,

just my observation... but shots were fired!

pros, cons, my opinions...

dating is about options and it's a contact sport,

study the game & then investment your time wisely,

if you ain't a team player, if you can't handle the emotional rollercoaster,

entertain a different interest,

or in yourself until your emotionally mature, intelligent and experienced, before believing you can handle such a rigorous system...

if you're a gold digger, then make it known, why hide behind filters, there's plenty of simps to catch and release, i might put a few coins in your purse, if you cum correct!

if you just wanna fuck, state that and don't waste your time wining & dining,

those are benefits not prerequisite, tongue twister foreplay followed by cream pie desserts is the mission, lol, no need for the nagging conversations,

not into marriage or kids, not a deal breaker if we only "casually dating",

just fwb & vibes,

single parents need sexual exercises too and i'm a good trainer,

i specialize in pleasurable results, most def a roi...

communication is key to any relationship,

like anyone, seriously,

close mouths don't get fed,

that sounds easy, yet that's usually the downfall for most "ships" that sink,

don't matter which,

there has to be some sort of connection thru communication, [unless it's only sexual, then that's a different vibe],

you would think this is "common sense" but never assume, common sense ain't common,

[just go ahead and date an a.i. if you are seeking the "perfect partner"]!

what is your dating style?

where do you prey for dates?

where do you have more success... online, or in person?

dating apps, or speed dating events?

@ the strip club, or @ the church?

craigslist, or backpage?

1 nightstand, or 1 that sticks around?

this is your dating questionnaire, lol, everything is a test,

how's your personality?

approachable?

sometimes it's the monster in the mirror that scares potential suitors,

take pride in self 1st, before you judge others and hate on their success @ happiness...

dating standards are subjective globally,

more comfortable in western worlds in my educated opinion,

our moral compass has ceased to exist for many rising suns and falling moons,

our expectations are unrealistic like the content we binge on social media platforms,

we filter our true feelings for attention, following trends to get mentions,

social media is a digital resume for human lies that affect others' lives,

why a percentage of relationships falter, and destain to fail,

you're trying to base your "relationship" on scripted reality shows,

are you "programmed" much?

think outside the box,

go outside & leave your devices inside, take a "digication" for a few days [i just made that up, but i believe it's called a "digital detox"],

if you're sitting in your room right now like brandy, that's why monica took ya boy, lol, you saw the shoes, she was outside,

come on, how will your soul mate find you?

serious question...

wit mental telepathy?

or wit your knees on the ground? lol,

take it however you like, it's 2025 if you kno you know, let me continue...

long gone the days of "love", at least authentically impo,

now, there has to be requirements, contracts, nda's, cash app'n, serial catfishing,

theres mentally ill demons fiending on thirst trappin thots,

[no mistake, males can be thots too]

sometimes it's good to go back in history and bring back what made dating fun,

authentic expression & harnessing of sexual energy,

no mating wars [@sk ai], just emotional freedom, being societal norm rebels,

bring it back to the 70's, but with 20 25 technologies,

we're living somebodies' imagination,

now take your digital energy and make it into a tangible reality!

i endorse a single for life style,

choose what you desire,

love is expensive, complicated depending on your partner, and time is the only currency that repays the debts of its addiction,

thanks bey, now we addict to a facade called love, lol,

i'm good, i'll live vicariously through others pov, and experiences,

i'll just follow the beliefs of soloman, build my digital kingdom,

and exist peacefully, stress free sexually ...

but whatever your quest in the game of dating is,

enjoy yourself, you only have one life to live,

so don't fuck it up regretting not shooting your shot,

learn the lesson, stop the stressin, avoid the toxic shit,

make best of the lemon's life deals you, 

take your time, and move one step forward,

cross your t's & dot your i's before signing up for a trip, on a ship, that you're not equipped to sail in deep emotional waters wit,

a lot of sharks are circling these digital seas for simps, lol...

many of you simps ain't that confident to play this murky game,

i'm serious, know your worth & your options before you get your feelings hurt!